Man Trouble?

What are you doing?..............I mean seriously, have you asked yourself what you're doing with this man? See this is where the problem begins. Not only are you having "intimate webcam fun" with a man you don't know in person, but you're making yourself available to somebody who doesn't have to put in the effort to truly be with you. Look, I know it's tough to find somebody who's really for you but you've gotta look at the big picture. If you keep on with this "secret rendezvous" that you're having with this man, reality may come knocking on the door in the form of a wife or girlfriend from the city he's in and it might get ugly. My advice is to ask where you stand, ask where it's leading, and if he gets all defensive then just let it go. That's what I think. But then again you have to ask yourself the most important question: If I continue down the road that I'm headed will I be happy with what's going to happen at the end of that road? Meaning will you really like what you get from this relationship that you're in now. Please don't be short sighted, that usually leads to disappointment. But make a well balanced, informed decision on where to take it from here.......And smile, you're gonna figure it out.